Monday, June 8, 2015

Beauty of a Woman



Being female does not guarantee a girl will grow up to be a lady.It is a process for a girl to become a woman and develop into a lady. 

A lady understands that her appearance, behavior, and way of communicating provide others with valuable insight into her character. She knows that her true beauty is not acquired at a make-up counter, with a new outfit, or by following the latest trend or by changing men. Rather, she understands true beauty is first inward (1 Peter 3:3 Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes). A lady understands that her real strength is not found in being with a man but rather, in being independent,educated, intelligent and self-assured.

Girls expose their naked/half naked bodies on social media but ladies/women know that even covered in clothes they are sizzling hot and sexy. Girls find their confidence when proposed by a lot of men not realizing that cheap prices attract lots of customers. Girls find joy in bringing down other females and destroying marriages.Some things comes with maturity and knowledge. Let us produce women that will bring glory to the Kingdom of God as we are Mothers of Nations.

Sex can not make you powerful and real(From a Man's perspective)



From a Man's perspective:
As a man, I can sleep with many
many married and unmarried
women and impregnant them all
but that will *NEVER* make me a
Powerful and Real man but one
of the most foolish men on earth.
Sleeping with many many
women will *NEVER* make me a
champion or superstar but a
destroyer or breaker of women's
hearts. I can only become
Powerful and Real, if I fear God
and give Him Glory and Obey Him.
When I do that, then I will stick to
one woman (who is my wife)
and respect the rest of the
women I meet in life. That's
being Powerful and Real as a
man.
As a woman, you can sleep with
many many married and
unmarried men and make them
cry for more but that will
*NEVER* make you a Powerful
and Real woman on earth but
one of the most foolish women
on earth. Being Powerful and
Real does not lie in sleeping with
different men. If you want to be
Wise, Powerful and Real, *fear
God and give Him *Glory and
*Obey Him. When you do that,
then you will stick to one man
(your husband) and respect the
rest of the men you meet in life.
That's being Powerful and Real
as a woman.
Powerful and Real men and
women Love God, Fear Him, Give
Him Glory and Obey Him.
Powerful and Real boys and girls
Love God, Fear Him, Give Him
Glory and Obey Him.
PEACE BE STILL AND GOD BLESS!

Tuesday, June 2, 2015

Food for the soul for single and married ladies



I got this message through facebook and i felt it is relevant to share on this site,so here we go and please take note if you already married you cannot change but you can pray that God intervenes and give you the husband worthy of You.

Are You The Right Man For Her?
Gen. 2:24
” Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. "

Yesterday, we talked about different categories of wife in the marriage market but today we are looking the types of men available in the supermarket of marriage.

The Bible says ” a man shall leave his father and his mother to cleave to his wife " so here the Bible tells us that it is the man that is getting married to the woman not the other way around. Many men have lost their parents prematurely because of not understanding this simple fundamental of marriage,they put their parents first before their wives and God forcefully removes the barrier which is hindering the progress of that marriage to teach the husband what it means to cleave to his wife because by himself he can't. When you take the decision to marry,you are entering into God's sacred union&will live as per His guidance(the word).

There are also 4 categories of men in the supermarket of marriage; bad husband, satanic husband, good husband and Godly husband.

1. BAD HUSBAND:
- he doesn't care about the feelings of his wife.
- his wife is a slave to him
- helping his wife to do anything at home is an abomination.
- he barks at the children like a soldier at the parade ground
- he is quick to beat his children with slightest mistakes and also beat his wife.
- his children doesn't have access to his properties.
- he has a lot of concubines(girlfriends) like king Solomon
- he is an addict drunker n master womanizer
- he seduce all his wife's friends and sisters.
- he doesn't put money for food at home but expect the woman to cook.
- he dissociate the wife from all good friends and neighbours.
- he doesn't want his wife to dress well to be admired by other people but he runs after women who dress well outside.
- he is a commander and anyone who doesn't obey him get the beating of life.
- he listen to sermons but condemns the pastors
- once the wife give birth to a child, he doesn't take her out to cinema, restaurant or amusement park anymore. She has become old school to him.
- he doesn't identify his wife sexual needs and doesn't stay at home with her and children.
- he attends parties like Ankara and lace and love his friends more than his family.
- he prefer his mother's opinion than that of his wife.
- he suspect his wife's every move as if she is seeing another man.
- he set his own friend to try to seduce his wife to know if she is faithful.
- he hates his wife's family with perfect hatred and expects her to disown her family&love only his -he puts his mother and father first before his wife and children

2. SATANIC HUSBAND:
 - he is an agent of darkness.
- he came into her life for a purpose to destroy her.
- he married her with charm and use his evil power to collect all her properties
- he pretends to love her but he is only tearing her apart
- he abandons her when his purpose of destroying her destiny and future is accomplished.
-he stands in her way of her spiritual growth refusing her to attend prayer meetings&night prayers or even engage in prayers in the house.
-he permits her to praise the Lord in his presence saying she is making noise

3. GOOD HUSBAND:
- he sees the wife as a friend, sister and mother.
- he doesn't cheat but prefer his wife and cherishes her.
- he drinks but not too much and he likes to spend time with his wife and children.
- he make sure his family never lack but also plans for beer parlour in his income.
- he doesn't allow intruder into his marriage and guide his family jealously.
- he pays his children's school fees regularly and take care of his wife needs.
- he pleases his mother and his wife without preferential.
- he also take his wife and children out when he is on leave.
- he doesn't really get angry at his wife and correct his children with love.
- he loves his wife and respect her family.

4. GODLY HUSBAND:
 - he loves God and always pray for the progress of his family.
- he doesn't have any extra marital affairs(girlfriends).
- he train his children and wife in ways of the Lord.
- he loves talking about sermons.
- he takes responsibilities very serious and have a way of meeting up with them even in financial difficulties.
- he supports his wife with resources and prayers to achieve her destiny.
- he doesn't always find fault in her family but always encourage everyone to be at best.
- he is a fun man and the house is lively with him.
- he knows the importance of feelings and always attends to his wife sexual needs.
- he design a good prayer time for the family and he fast regularly to check the spiritual background of her family.
- God is his first priority and after that his wife and children.